Happy weekened

may you enjoy your weekened with your family..thanks for visiting my site..mwaaahhh

Just wanna share this story..

my mom only had one eye..

i hated the fact that i had to be stuck with a retard for a mother.
i hated her... she was such an embarressment..
my mom ran a small shop at a flea market.
she collected little weeds and such to sell... anything for the money we needed
she was such an embarressment.
there was this one day during elementary school..
it was field day, and my mom came.
i was so embarressed. how could she do this to me? i threw her a hateful look and ran out.

the next day at school...
"your mom's a retard with one eye?!?!" ..and they taunted me.
i wished that my mom would just dissappear from this world
so i said to my mom,
"mom.. why dont you have the other eye?!
if you're only gonna make me a laughingstock, why dont you just die?!!!"
my mom did not respond..
i guess i felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that i had said what i'd wanted to say all this time..
maybe it was because my mom hadnt punished me,
but i didnt think that i had hurt her feelings very badly.

that night...
i woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water.
my mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me.
i took a look at her, then turned away.
because of the thing i had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart.
even so, i hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. so i told myself that i would grow up and become successful.
cause i hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty..

then i studied real hard.
i left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence i had.

then, i got married.
i bought a house of my own.
then i had kids, too..
now i'm living happily as a successful man.
i like it here because it's a place that doesnt remind me of my mom.

this happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when..

what?!
who's this?!
...it was my mother...
..still with her one eye.
it felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me.
my little girl ran away, scared of my mom's eye.
and i asked her,

"who are you?!"
"i dont know you!!!" as if trying to make that real. i screamed at her," how dare you come to my house and scare my daughter!"


"GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!"

and to this, my mother quietly answered,
"oh, i'm so sorry. i may have gotten the wrong address,"
and she dissappeared out of sight.


thank good ness... she doesnt recognize me..
i was quite relieved.

i told myself that i wasnt going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.
then a wave of relief came upon me...

one day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. so, lying to my wife that i was going on a business trip, i went.
after the reunion, i went down to the old shack, that i used to call a house...just out of curiosity

there, i found my mother fallen on the cold ground.
but i did not shed a single tear.
she had a piece of paper in her hand.... it was a letter to me.

my son...
i think my life has been long enough now..

and... i wont visit Seoul anymore...
but would it be too much to ask if i wanted you to come visit me once in a while?
i miss you so much.. and i was so glad when i heard you were coming for the reunion.
but i decided not to go to the school.
...for you...
and i'm sorry that i only have one eye, and i was an embarressment for you.

you see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. as a mom, i couldnt stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye... so i gave you mine...
i was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new wolrd for me, in my place, with that eye. i was never upset at you for anything you did.. the couple times that you were angry with me,.. i thought to myself, 'it's because he loves me..'

my son... oh, my son...
i dont want you to cry for me, because of my death.

please dont cry....
my son, i love you so much.

something gripped the corner of my heart.

and tears were flowing from the eye that my mother had given me..
my mom... my loving mom...
such simple words as 'i love you', that i never told her...
such simple things as buying my mom a dinner.
such simple things as buying her pretty clothes... that i never did...

and still, my mom loved me til her very end....
im sorry..
it wasnt my mom that was the retard with one eye...
it was me, that....

all these things i realized too late... mother, please forgive me...
mother, im sorry... im so sorry.....
and the words i never got around to telling you,....

i love you.
...i love you mom...

Melissa Mc Clelland
732-718-1996 Cell

I am not ashamed of my mom..thoug she is not perfect but i love her so dearly...

" Just wanna thanks dae Ivy for making my blog looks so beautifull..thanks a lot dae iv's..hope you know how much i appreciate it..i really love my new house now..am sure every visitors will love it too..right?"

FINAL NA!!! NAKA BOOKED NA TICKET NATIN (May 27, SUNDAY)

We need to thank Greg Muller(titings hubby) for booking our ticket..so final na ito..tuloy na yong swimming natin..kaya kayo ready nyo na ang mga swim wear nyo..yong two piece..

Titing said na mga 400 plus ang mababayarab natin lahat lahat including tax..me two cabanas tayo kong saan mailagay natin yong mga pagkain na dadalhin...so baka mag babayad tayo ng mga 22 to 25 dollars each..just bring an extra cash..

ITO YONG MGA KAILANGANIN NATING DALHIN..

1) Pera at least 25 dollars or 30 (cash ha) para me extra...
2) kailangan each of us magdala ng pagkain...anything basta makain...kong di kayo mahilig magloto ,bumili nalang ng pagkain sa store ok na...
3) two piece or swim wear

Ito yong mga nabilhan na nang ticket...kailangan pumunta talaga kayo kasi naka booked na ang ticket..

1) janine (mc kinney)
2) janine ( denton)
3) lyn
4) myra
5)jiji
6) anne
7) anna (buntis)
8) karen
9)genelyn
10) bernadeth
11)titing and hubby
12) rowena and hubby
13)sarah and hubby and kid
14)emelyn and hubby and kid
15) kareen and hubby

The KIDS will pay 9.99 dollars..

sa Hawaiian Garland tayo pupunta hindi sa colony...

ito yong address:

Hawaiian Falls Firewheel4550 North Garland AvenueGarland, Texas 75040972 675-8888

click here for the direction...

Am sure this will be fun..hindi na ako makapag hintay...

sa TAGA DENTON:
si John ( hubby ni weng) yong mag dadrive sa atin...Van namin yong gagamitin..we need to be early ha k kakahiya k john..JIJI kailangan andito kana sa amin mga 10 in the morning...LYN and MYRA we'll pick you up sa store nila ni LYN by 10:30..kailangan ready na kayo before 10:30 para di na mag hintay si john kasi nakakahiya...

ay oo pala..magcasino kami ni titing,karen,myra at ako this sunday..me 3 vacant pa sa van ko..sinong gustong sumama..dito tayo mag meet sa amin...

ohh cge kong me mga question kayo just IM me..janineivyloreto username ko yan sa YM...

seee yaah all next week...

Kong sino yong si na lukatan ng ticket, tapos gustong pumunta. pwede kayong bumili ticket online..make sure na sa garland na ticket bibilhin nyo ha...

thanks...

A love story that worth of sharing!!!!

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing afterher, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of theparty, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, butdue to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, hewas too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought,please, let me go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. "would youplease give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, heput the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; whyyou have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was livingnear the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of thesea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have thesalty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, Imiss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there".While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who cantell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares abouthome, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spokeabout her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a reallynice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meetsall her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. Hewas such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his saltycoffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princessmarried to the prince, then they were living the happy life... And,every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee e,as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "Mydearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the onlylie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated?I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I saidsalt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thoughtthat could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you thetruth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I havepromised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't likethe salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the saltycoffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry foranything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for mywhole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know youand have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the saltycoffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what'sthe taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied. Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2 hearbut 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!! Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the oneyou like will leave you for the one they love.

Mothers day pics

just wanna share to you the pics that i took last mothers day...i know every husband has its way how to show their love,thoughtfullness to the woman who become the mother of their children.And my hubby did really a good job on making me feel so special last mothers day...He pampered me for the whole weekened. as in i start celebrating my mothers day saturday and it continues till sunday..hehehe..i have already gotten my mothers day gift before may 13...it always happen like that, i always get my gifts before the actual date of celebration..i got a new cellphone and of course cash for shopping..

Saturday may 12,greg makes my favorite food for lunch and for dinner, me and my hubby had our dinner date at our fav restaurant here..its a kind of romantic place..i really like the ambiance of the place..its dim and we have a candle in our table..its a buffette style but the meat will be served by the waiters in your table...we didnt bring elijah with us of course..hehehe we just want to have a quality romantic time with each other...Thankfully greg's officemate was so kind enough to babysit elijah for us...
I had so much fun and my stomach has fun too..hehehe my bulati inside had a feast too for all that good food i put in there...we pick up elijah around 8 pm.

At May 13 we make ourself ready for our trip to forth worth museum..greg and elijah got in the car first while me, still making sure that we bring everything..you know stuff for the baby..when i get in the car i saw a pink card on my sit...yup! its a card from my boys..greg is trying to let elijah sign the card. pero duh gi weres weresan ra tawon sa akong anak ang card...i like the message that greg's wrote...it really touch my heart....heheh i always have this feeling that i am not a good mom to elijah and a good wife to greg. and him telling me how great i am and how thankfull he is for having me, was just something for me...

i felt so much loved..i got a card from my mom in law and a call from her too...

I am so happy and thankful to the person or whoever they are, the one who introduce or give an idea to let the world celebrate a mothers day...at least give all the mothers a day to be honored..coz i tell you, being a mom is not that easy...they put their life at risk just to deliver their baby...as what my mom said, kapikas daw sa ilang tiil tua nag ang ang sa kamatayan...plus the nursing and lack of sleep...imagina lang na...

anyhow, i just wanna say thanks to all my friends who keep on peeping my site...your time was really appreciated..bisan wala update kanunay jud gihapon mo bisita diri...thanks jud...mwaaahhh

Look what else we can do with vegetables..

Pretty neat huh? if you're a person who is not into vegetables,then you can turn em into like this..hehehhhe

Happy MOM's DAy to All SUPER MOM!

to all Super MOm out there! Happy Mother's DAY...our job as a mom is not that easy..we're the one who nurture,train and discipline our kids for them to become a fine man someday.A man with dignity,respect, and love to his fellowmen...

THE WORLD IS SO PROUD OF YOU..YOU MUST BE PROUD OF YOURSELF TOO, FOR YOU DID A GOOD JOB OF TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS...

I haven't called my mom yet, but will call her this evening...

Look What The CAt Brought IN

One week after being born, six baby skunks were abandoned by their mother. Luckily, we had just weaned five kittens off of our resident farm cat a day before and hoped that perhaps she might take them on as her own. She was reluctant at first, but she let them nurse - a positive sign. Two weeks have gone by and the six little "Stinkers" are thriving and their new mom couldn't be happier. She has become quite devoted to them and even carries them around to show them off to visitors.

I was so impressed of what this cat did..wow! its so nice of her to take care and nurse this 6 abandoned skunks...